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Unnecessary Interactions

by Sally Easton — last modified Sep 22, 2009 03:30 PM

With technology advancing quicker than we can keep up with, have we displaced the need to communicate with real people altogether?

I’m getting quite excited about my long haul trip back to London and where a few years ago I used to become quite agitated at the thought of being stationary for 28 hours, I now long to have that inevitable monotony.

 

I’ve made the journey a number of times and know the best sequence to place film watching, music listening, book reading, food eating and I’m pretty sure I’ll have my headphones on during all of it bar the sleeping bit. Experience tells me that despite being trapped inside a capsule for more than a day with hundreds of interesting people, I’ll be lucky to exchange a few words with any of them. I’ll be too engrossed in my ‘in flight entertainment system’ to worry myself with talking.

 

Getting hooked on technology and becoming more and more detached from people has become much more common place than I ever thought possible. Despite the fact that our global population numbers are exploding and there are more people to talk to than ever before, we seem to be slipping into an abyss that’s void of real people that have real lives. Instead of catching up for a coffee to find company, it’s easier to jump on FaceBook. We’ve replaced a game of Twister with our family for Donkey Kong Jungle Beat on Nintendo Wii and even the concoction of deliciousness that surrounds good old fashion courting has been superseded by ‘findsomeone.com’. It is now possible to fill the hole caused by loneliness and sadness with iPods and Blackberries and share our successes and opinions across SMS and Twitter. In fact if our jobs were of a particular type, we wouldn’t have to talk to anybody, ever again. I even know of a few personal trainers who have successfully replaced the ‘personal’ with weekly exercise programmes and support that are emailed through to clients they’ve never met.

 

Do we need real people anymore? Have they simply become surplus to requirements? We can ‘self serve’ in Pak ‘n’ Save, we can bank on line, even txt through a coffee order. Have we over complicated life with all these ever increasing people and unnecessary interactions? 

 

The pen used to be mightier than the sword with superiority coming from articulate and eloquent expressions of ideas. Without a doubt, cyberspace is now kicking Biro’s butt and in what will soon be the twenty second century, is that such a bad thing?

 

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Nardine Oakes Sep 24, 2009 12:05 PM
that is so right Sally, there are people who live in Auckland who i have caught up more with them via Facebook than i have in person!! very Bad. as for the self serve i actually find that quite fun being able to scan my own things!! its the small things that give me joy!! and also just on the love front i still prefer the old fashion way and i am in no rush to join this internet dating which seems to have just gone crazy!!
Nadia Buxeda Sep 24, 2009 12:57 PM
Definitely there are times when technology works for me. I like the idea of self-check-in on airlines. I wouldn't have had any meaningful contact with the check in person anyway so they may as well not be there, unfortunately the idea of gyms without people are not so appealing. A machine telling me my programme doesn't sound any where near as appealing as a friendly face encouraging me when I just don't feel like it!
Liz Horner Oct 03, 2009 04:16 PM
Confession - I'm one of those junkies who loves facebook, twitter and linkedin and...whatever else comes along. For me, it's about connecting with more people, not less. On Facebook, it's about connecting with those friends that live to far away, on Twitter and LinkedIn it's about connecting with experts in areas I'm learning about.

And yes, I bank online and have bought groceries online all with the aim of saving time.

But don't get me wrong. Given the choice of catching up with a friend for a glass of wine or chatting via Skype, I'd take the face-to-face vino date any day.

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